it’s this thing i notice i start to do...language i use in relationship to doing something. i call it ‘shoulding all over myself’. it sounds like ‘i should sign up for a race’ or ‘i should make more runner friends’ usually driven by some sort of external influence, something i *think* will be good for me to possibly make up for some lack or shortcoming. when i start saying ‘should’ a lot it’s usually a red flag i need to reassess something. thanks for asking (and reading!)
it’s this thing i notice i start to do...language i use in relationship to doing something. i call it ‘shoulding all over myself’. it sounds like ‘i should sign up for a race’ or ‘i should make more runner friends’ usually driven by some sort of external influence, something i *think* will be good for me to possibly make up for some lack or shortcoming. when i start saying ‘should’ a lot it’s usually a red flag i need to reassess something. thanks for asking (and reading!)
What is ‚shoulding‘? Great read.. 🙂